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MY THOUGHTS ON LOVE AND ARRANGE MARRIAGE
Finding
a life partner is a personal journey that involves building a strong, loving,
and compatible relationship with someone who shares your values, goals, and
interests. It's important to communicate openly, be patient, and take time to
get to know each other before making a lifelong commitment.
The
choice between love and arranged marriage is a deeply personal one and can vary
greatly depending on cultural, individual, and societal factors, Love marriages
are based on a pre-existing emotional connection and mutual love between the
individuals involved. You have the freedom to choose your partner, often based
on compatibility, shared values, and personal preferences. You may have more
time to get to know your partner before marriage, which can lead to a stronger
foundation. If you ask me about love marriage or arranged marriage, I will always say
love marriage because it’s always better when you are able to know your partner
better in all the ways. I don’t say arranged marriage is bad, both have their own
negatives and positives in all sense.
Arranged
marriages involve the families of the individuals in the decision-making
process, which can provide a support system. It may align with cultural or
religious traditions and can be seen as a way to preserve heritage and values.
While love may not be the initial basis, many arranged marriages successfully
develop love and compatibility over time. Ultimately, the choice depends on
your individual preferences and circumstances. Some people find happiness and
fulfillment in love marriages, while others have successful and loving
relationships through arranged marriages. It's essential to communicate openly
with your partner and family and prioritize your own happiness and well-being
in making this decision.
Remember
that every relationship is unique, and what works for one may not work for
another. Well, I have a living role model in front of me, who met through a matrimony profile, discussed all things with my parents, then had to wait for a few
months for marriage but I will say those few months they came to know each
other, there negatives and positives. I will say these two live in the present
because they fight but those fights won’t go much longer soon it will be back to
normal. Well, I will say in all the sense these two show me how you can live
knowing one plus point and minus points. When I seek a partner, the first two persons I speak will be both.
A
good partner for life should be someone who shares your values, communicates
effectively, supports your goals, and makes you feel loved and respected.
Trust, compatibility, and shared life goals are essential factors to consider, remember
that every relationship is unique, and what works for one may not work for
another. Ultimately, the success of a marriage, whether love or arranged,
depends on the individuals involved and their commitment to making it work.
There is no one-size-fits-all answer, so choose the path that aligns with your
values and feels right for you.
Remember
that no one is perfect, and compromises may be necessary in any relationship.
It's also important to keep an open mind and be willing to adapt as you get to
know someone. Ultimately, your preferences should align with what will make you
happy and fulfilled in a long-term partnership.
Remember
that love is a two-way street, and it's not always something you can control or
force. Building loving relationships often requires time and effort from both
parties involved. When you love someone it's always better you say those and
communicate with them or else it will become more painful shortly, when I say all this a lot of people ask me Jo what’s your partner's preference,
well, simply, I need a girl who can truly be with me in my sadness and
in my happiness. And to be someone who
supports all my madness in my music and in my writing thoughts. Rather I would
say I need a girl who should be more critical than me in all those things that I
do. Moreover, a girl who can understand me in all the ways. I think all these
matches someone shortly.
“Eh
bien, je pense avoir trouvé cette fille correspondant à toutes les préférences
que j'ai dites, mais je ne sais pas quoi dire ni comment lui dire tout cela.” Ultimately,
the success of a marriage, whether love or arranged, depends on the individuals
involved and their commitment to making it work. There is no one-size-fits-all
answer, so choose the path that aligns with your values and feels right for
you.
"You and I are two imperfect people refusing to give up each other "
Jo💓💓
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